One of the most common fears I hear from clients is, “I’m scared of tearing”. Either the idea alone is enough to bring anxiety, or they’ve had a friend or family member who had an experience with a severe tear and a difficult recovery as a result. If you find yourself having these same thoughts and fears, just know you are not alone.

There are hundreds, maybe thousands of hospital bag checklists out there already, so you might be saying “another checklist”? And while it’s true, this is just another checklist, my goal in creating this list (and free printable!) is to help you feel realistically prepared for a hospital birth experience while still bringing the least amount of “stuff” from home as possible.

Just like with the other stages of labor, you have options when it comes to your positioning and breathing techniques during this phase, and oftentimes utilizing different techniques can increase your comfort, make pushing more effective, and decrease the risk for severe perineal tearing. Understanding your options for the pushing phase can help you anticipate this moment with confidence.

The station of the baby, combined with cervical dilation and effacement measurement, can help you better understand how your body is progressing in labor, and even what body positioning may best assist your baby in their descent through the birth canal.

There are a lot of valid concerns that may cross the mind of a spouse if their partner is considering doula support, but in reality there are many things that a doula can do to support both parents during pregnancy, labor and delivery.

Epidural anesthesia has been widely used during labor and delivery since the 1980’s. Although it is a common intervention, it is not the only option for pain management. If you are pregnant and wondering if you should choose an epidural during labor, it can be helpful to understand how they work, how they’re administered, as well as benefits, risks and potential side effects.

If your baby is breech at 36 weeks your provider will likely want to discuss options with you, including a procedure known as an external cephalic version, or even scheduling a c-section. If you’d like to explore other options for encouraging baby to flip into a head-down position, there are a few low-risk alternatives you can try.

While a small percentage of women may have an underlying medical reason for not producing enough breast milk, many women WILL go on to produce exactly the type and volume of milk that their baby requires, from the moment their baby is born, to the time they eventually wean. But the question for many still stands - “is my baby getting enough milk?” Thankfully there are three simple ways to help you determine whether your baby is getting the milk they need.

Many women are seeking out home birth as a viable option. If you have a home birth already planned for your current pregnancy, or are considering home birth for the future, there are a few things to consider.

Regardless of what situations you find yourself in, whether you have a high or low-risk pregnancy - even in the labor and delivery room - you have the right to pause and ask for the benefits, risks, alternatives to any procedure or test being suggested to you, the right to trust your instincts, and the right to say “no, not now.” You can remember to exercise your right to informed choice and to ask these questions, by using the helpful BRAIN acronym.

For the mother who desires to breastfeed, there can be immense overwhelm and anxiety over this part of parenthood. It’s a daunting task: growing a child inside your body, delivering him into the world and then being required to produce, from your own body, all of the nourishment he needs to grow and develop properly - no pressure, right?!

Although cute and convenient, your fertility tracker apps may be missing the mark when it comes to tracking your cycle accurately and predicting fertile days. Have you ever had your period come “early”, or gotten a little bit nervous when it was “late” - according to your tracker app? Fortunately, there are other ways to more accurately understand your menstrual cycle, and signs you can look for that can help you understand each phase.

Even in the midst of evidence surrounding the importance of labor support, the severity of the 2020 global health crisis prompted some facilities to take extreme measures in an effort to protect patients and staff, and with hopes of containing the spread of disease, including limiting the number of support persons in the labor & delivery room.

There are several basic essential oils that can be utilized during pregnancy, labor and delivery, to not only promote mental and emotional clarity and calmness, but also aid in physical sensations of pain or tenderness, and to promote skin and wound healing. If you are someone who likes to try simple, natural methods for common and/or minor ailments before taking a medicalized approach to care, you may find value in using essential oils.

What if there was a way to receive continued physical, emotional, and informational support for you and your new baby beyond the walls of the hospital and care providers? What if there was a way to have in-home help with infant care, basic household chores, meal prep, light cleaning and laundry, so that parents could meet their own needs and the needs of their baby without exhausting themselves to the point of no return? The good news - this is all possible with a postpartum doula.

If your first pregnancy resulted in a cesarean, whether planned or unplanned, and you desire a vaginal birth the second time around, there are a few key preparation steps that are important to having a positive VBAC experience.

There are a few terms that are important to understand as a person in labor (or a support person!), and “effacement” and “dilation” are both equally important ways that your body prepares for the birth of your baby. Effacement and dilation of the cervix are two observable and measurable factors that are important for a successful spontaneous vaginal birth.

Before moving forward with your chosen doula or agency, there are a few questions you should ask in order to get to know your doula(s) and ensure that they are a good fit for you and your birth preferences.

Whether for pure enjoyment or as a tool for meditation, relaxation or movement, creating a perfect labor playlist can be a fun way for you to prepare for baby and help set the mood for your labor and delivery.